There’s a lot to think about! We know that, perhaps better than anyone. But, let's be honest here, taking control of the important things in life just feels good; you know it's the right thing to do for you, and your family.
Laying the foundation of a well-thought-out plan for either you or a loved one takes a bit of time, but, it's worth every moment spent. After all, you’re setting the stage for a more relaxed and enjoyable life, secure in the knowledge that you’ve taken care of the important details.
Prepare a contact list of individuals who should be notified in a medical emergency or death.
Write an obituary or jot down information you would like included in an obituary.
Decide where obituary and memorial information should appear.
Choose the type of service you would like, including the burial you prefer, and make those arrangements. You will need to decide:
Cemetery lot location
Casket type; cremation urn type
Vault or sectional crypt
Type of service: religious, military, non-denominational, or fraternal
Which one of our Family Tribute Centers to use
Pallbearers, music, flowers, scripture or other readings
Charity to receive donations in lieu of flowers, if preferred
Select the speakers and the eulogies that you would want to represent you.
Decide what organizations or church will benefit from memorial donations in your name.
Arrange and Delegate
The people who know and care about you will be there when you need them, but you do need to provide them with instructions, and any important financial details. You’re then in good hands, so relax.
Designate a power of attorney to ensure that proper information can be accessed in the event of your illness or death. Make sure a durable power of attorney for health care and a living will are in place so that your wishes are carried out if you are unable to do so.
Give your Personal Representative a copy of your Will. Safety deposit boxes are often opened up during the Estate Settlement process, after the funeral, and your Will should be accessible long before that.
Make sure your representative has a list of important account information or telephone numbers for retirement plans, insurance policies, investments, bank accounts, safe-deposit boxes, properties, preferred law and accountant firms and mortuaries. Remind your personal representative that the Social Security Administration will need to be called and, if you're receiving benefits such as those from the Veteran's Administration, they should be contacted as well.
Make arrangements for telephone and utilities services, and newspaper and magazine deliveries, to be cancelled.
Cemetery and memorialization services
Funeral arrangements, including clergy, florist and transportation
Make arrangements for pets to find a new home.
You can also contact us for additional information. We're pleased to answer any questions you may have, without obligation.